When I first joined The Friendship Project as an Older Friend, I was filled with a mix of excitement and nervousness. I wasn’t sure what to expect, or how I could make a real difference in someone’s life. But looking back now, after a year of shared memories and laughter with my Younger Friend ‘L’, I can say with certainty that this experience has been just as positive for me as it has been for her.
L, who is about to turn 13, was initially a little shy, but we quickly found common ground and we have the best outings. She is super chatty and has a brilliant sense of humour. Over the months, we’ve shared so many wonderful moments—from hot chocolates with all the trimmings and swimming at the local pool, to enjoying meals together at our favourite restaurants. We’ve baked cookies on weekends, go to the cinema and spent hours on our scrapbook which we love, as well as crafts and creative projects. We also love to go to the planned Friendship Project organised events. Our favourite would have to be the Craft Event. L loved the mug she got to paint.
I’ll admit, I was a bit nervous at first. I wasn’t sure how I would connect with her or what I could offer as an Older Friend. But with a mixture of small outings and some larger ones I’ve learned that being a good friend is about being present, listening, and sharing experiences. It’s those small, meaningful moments that make the biggest difference.
With her 13th birthday approaching, I’m looking forward to celebrating with her. I am looking forward to planning a special outing, and it will be another great opportunity to make more memories together.
The Friendship Project has provided me with a unique experience, and it’s not just about helping someone else – it’s also a chance to reflect. This journey has brought new perspectives and a sense of fulfilment that I didn’t expect when I first started. As she turns 13, I’m excited to continue our journey together, filled with more shared adventures and meaningful moments through The Friendship Project.
If you’re looking for a way to make a real difference, I highly encourage you to consider joining The Friendship Project. It’s an opportunity to connect with young people, offer support, and be part of something meaningful. The positive impact you can have on a child’s life is clear – and you’ll likely find yourself gaining new perspectives and experiences along the way. The friendships built through this charity are valuable for both the children and the volunteers, providing rewarding opportunities for growth and connection.
